Meet Susie, a bright and curious child with special needs. Let’s see how her family used planned ignoring to guide her behavior positively:
- Attention-Seeking: Susie loved playing with her blocks but often interrupted conversations for attention. Her parents decided to use planned ignoring. When she interrupted, they gently turned away, showing her that polite communication was more effective.
- Tantrum Time: One evening, Susie wanted a cookie before dinner. When denied, she threw a tantrum. Her parents stayed calm, not reacting to the outburst. Once she settled down, they praised her for calming herself and redirected her to choose a healthy snack.
- Repetitive Play: Susie’s habit of tapping on tables for attention was challenging. Her parents resisted responding and started a game with her blocks. Intrigued, Susie joined in, learning positive ways to engage.
- Quiet Victory: At bedtime, Susie used to resist brushing her teeth. Her parents stayed calm, not arguing. Instead, they used Goally’s gamified app to make teeth-brushing a fun routine, gradually making it a quiet success.
Through planned ignoring, Susie’s family nurtured her positive behaviors, showing that patience and redirection can create remarkable progress.