As I sit here reflecting on the upcoming Memorial Day holiday, I can’t help but think about how important it is to teach our kids about the significance of this day. Memorial Day is a federal holiday in the United States that honors soldiers who have died in the country’s wars. It takes place last Monday in May and was originally known as Decoration Day. While it’s a sad occasion, there are still many meaningful ways we can observe Memorial Day with our kids, even those with special needs or learning differences.
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In my work with children, I’ve found that engaging them in hands-on activities and sharing personal stories helps them connect with abstract concepts like sacrifice and patriotism. That’s why I’ve put together this list of ideas for commemorating Memorial Day with your kids. From singing patriotic songs to making poppy crafts, these activities will help your children understand the importance of honoring our fallen heroes.
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1. Sing Patriotic Songs Together
One simple way to mark Memorial Day with kids is by singing patriotic songs together. Have your children put their hands over their hearts and sing along to classics like “The Star-Spangled Banner,” “America the Beautiful,” and the Pledge of Allegiance. As you sing, explain the meaning behind the lyrics and how they relate to the sacrifices made by our military.
According to a recent poll, only 38% of Americans know all the words to “The Star-Spangled Banner.” Teaching your kids these songs helps them understand Memorial Day and instills a sense of national pride.
2. Read Poems and Books About Military Service
Reading poems or books written about war can give kids a glimpse into the experiences and perspectives of soldiers. Look for age-appropriate selections that convey courage, sacrifice, and patriotism themes. A few recommendations:
- “The Wall” by Eve Bunting (ages 4-8)
- “The Poppy Lady: Moina Belle Michael and Her Tribute to Veterans” by Barbara Walsh (ages 7-10)
- “America’s White Table” by Margot Theis Raven (ages 6-12)
As you read, pause to discuss any questions your kids may have. Talking openly about war and military service will help them healthily process this topic.
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3. Visit a War Memorial or Museum
If possible, take your kids to visit a local war memorial or military history museum. Seeing monuments and artifacts in person can make the stories of fallen soldiers feel more real and impactful. Many memorials even have areas where you can lay flowers in remembrance.
Before you go, research the memorial and the conflicts it commemorates. This will help you guide your kids through the experience and answer any questions they may have. Try to visit at a less busy time if your child gets overwhelmed by crowds or sensory stimulation.
4. Make Memorial Day Crafts
Doing patriotic crafts is a great way to spend quality time with your kids and teach them about Memorial Day. One symbolic craft involves making red poppies, which have long been associated with remembering fallen soldiers. You’ll need:
- Red and black construction paper
- Scissors
- Glue
- Green pipe cleaners
Cut out a simple poppy shape from the red paper. Add a black center and glue it onto the green pipe cleaner stem. As you work, explain to your kids how poppies became linked to honoring those lost in battle:
The tradition began during World War I when a Canadian soldier named John McCrae wrote a poem called “In Flanders Fields” about the red flowers growing between the gravestones of fallen comrades. The poppy symbolizes remembrance and is now used globally on veteran-related holidays.
5. Attend a Local Parade or Ceremony
Many communities host Memorial Day parades or ceremonies at local cemeteries or veteran’s halls. Check your town’s event listings and make plans to attend with your kids. You’ll likely see marching bands, hear speeches, and observe ceremonial rituals like the laying of wreaths.
Before you go, prep your kids on what to expect, especially if they have sensory sensitivities. Bring earplugs or headphones in case of loud noises. Talk about proper etiquette, like standing silently for the national anthem and clapping for veterans.
Attending these events shows your kids that remembering our fallen heroes is something the whole community values. It’s also a chance to connect with veterans and military families who may appreciate talking with the next generation.
6. Volunteer for Veterans
One hands-on way to honor Memorial Day with your kids is to volunteer with organizations that support veterans, active-duty personnel, and military families. Look for local opportunities like
- Placing flags at a veteran’s cemetery
- Assembling care packages for deployed troops
- Helping at a veteran’s charity event
- Bringing homemade treats or cards to a veteran’s hospital
Volunteering teaches kids valuable lessons about service, sacrifice, and supporting their community. It’s also a meaningful way to connect with older generations and learn firsthand about their experiences.
7. Share Family Stories
Memorial Day is ultimately about remembering those we’ve lost in service to their country. If you have relatives who died in a war, this is a poignant time to share their stories with your children. Bring out old photos, medals, letters, or other mementos to help bring these ancestors to life.
Even if you don’t have a direct family connection, you can still discuss what military service and sacrifice means to you personally. By opening up and sharing your own reflections, you model for your kids how to approach this somber holiday with reverence and gratitude.
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The True Meaning of Memorial Day
With all the backyard barbecues and retail sales, it’s easy for the real significance of Memorial Day to get lost. But by mindfully engaging your kids in some of the activities above, you can help them cut through the noise and understand what this day is truly about honoring the men and women who gave their lives for our country.
This Memorial Day, take time to remember and reflect with your kids in whatever way feels authentic to your family. Whether you belt out “God Bless America,” lay flowers at a monument, or share treasured stories, the important thing is imparting to the next generation the value of commemoration. With a little creativity and care, your kids will gain a deeper appreciation for the sacrifices that secured their freedom.
Helpful Resources
- National Cemetery Administration
- United Service Organizations (USO)
- Military Child Education Coalition
FAQ’s About Memorial Day for Kids
What is Memorial Day?
Memorial Day is a U.S. holiday observed on the last Monday of May to honor and remember those who died while serving in the United States Armed Forces.
How can kids celebrate Memorial Day?
Kids can celebrate Memorial Day by participating in activities such as attending parades, making patriotic crafts, or visiting memorials or cemeteries to pay their respects.
Are there any Memorial Day activities for kids?
Yes, there are many Memorial Day activities suitable for kids, such as decorating graves with flowers, making thank-you cards for veterans, or having a family picnic or barbecue.
What should I teach my kids about Memorial Day?
You should teach your kids that Memorial Day is a time to remember and honor the brave men and women who sacrificed their lives to protect our country and our freedom.
How do I explain the significance of Memorial Day to my child?
Explain to your child that Memorial Day is a special day to show gratitude and appreciation for those who served in the military and died to keep us safe, and that it's important to remember and honor their sacrifices.
Emily is a seasoned blog writer for Goally, leveraging her extensive background in child psychology and special education to provide valuable insights and resources for parents. Her commitment to understanding and addressing the unique needs of these children, combined with her expertise in educational strategies, makes her a credible and empathetic voice for families.
